16 Signs You Really Did Marry the Perfect Person


Every marriage goes through rough patches. Although some marriages end in divorce, many survive long enough to come out the other side unscathed.

A marriage is about 2 people that boldly choose each other, try their best to meet each other’s needs for intimacy and companionship, and progress through their own journey of life.

You can observe the little things your husband does on a daily basis in order to find out if you are married to the right person.

 

16 Signs You Are Married to the Right Person:

 

– He puts effort into his hobbies, interests, career, your marriage, and empowers your individuality

 

Marriage isn’t enmeshment; it is actually 2 distinct identities with unique talents, personalities, histories, and dreams that are willing to move through life alongside each other. So, if your husband puts effort into his hobbies, interests, career, your marriage, and empowers your individuality, it means that you are in a happy marriage.

 

– He’s a great listener and tries his best to understand you

 

Creating open communication in a marriage is a very important part of a healthy marriage. If your husband does not automatically assume there is a problem or feel like something is wrong in your marriage when you do not agree with him, it indicates that he’s a great listener and tries his best to understand you.

 

– He knows your dreams and encourages you to achieve them

 

If your husband is always there for you; knows your dreams and encourages you to achieve them; and inspires you to grow as a person, it is a sign that he loves you unconditionally. His love invites you to step out fearlessly into the world, yawn wider, stand taller, and stretch farther.

 

– He knows how to manage his emotions and stress

 

If he’s able to manage his own emotions and stress, and puts his own desires and frustrations aside to prioritize yours, it is an indicator that you are in a happy marriage.

 

– He comforts and calms you whenever you are sad, upset, depressed, disappointed, overwhelmed or devastated

 

If he comforts and calms you whenever you are sad, upset, depressed, disappointed, overwhelmed or devastated, it is a sign that you hit the marriage jackpot.

 

– He flirts with you and keeps the charm alive

 

If he flirts with you and keeps the charm alive, it means that he’s in love with you.

 

– He includes you when making an important decision

 

If he thinks of you first when he is faced with an important decision, and decides to include you and listen to your counsel when making a decision, it means that you are married to the right person.

 

– He wants to spend time with you

 

Investing effort and time into a marriage is a great predictor of whether it’s going to last or not.

Therefore, if your husband wants to spend time with you, it suggests that you are important to him.

 

– He loves his mom and treats her with respect

 

If he does everything to take good care of his mom and treats her with respect, he’s more likely to treat you the same.

 

– He gives you compliments, finds the joy in the little things, and does not take you for granted

 

If he gives you compliments, finds the joy in the little things, and does not take you for granted, it is a sign that he’s in love with you and that he’s proud to have you in his life.

 

– He’s selfless, puts you first, keeps his promises, and tries his best to be there for you

 

It’s important to understand that selflessness and unconditional love go together. So, if he’s selfless, puts you first, keeps his promises, and tries his best to be there for you, it indicates that you are married to the right person.

 

– He expresses his feelings to you through words of affirmation, quality time, acts of service, and physical touch

 

If he expresses his feelings to you through words of affirmation, quality time, acts of service, and physical touch, it means that he truly loves you. He does so, because he wants you to know how much he loves you.

 

– He surprises you

 

Every woman loves a spontaneous dinner date, flowers or a sudden short trip. So, if he surprises you from time to time, he wants to see you smile and make you happy.

 

– He’s willing to help you with chores

 

Every happy couple embraces marriage as a team. If he’s willing to help you with chores, it means that you’re a team and that your life will be much easier.

 

– He admits when he’s wrong

 

Like any couple, you probably fight over small (unimportant) things, as well. But, if he admits when he’s wrong and does not blame you for everything that happens in your marriage, it is a sign that you are married to the right person.

 

– He truly trusts you

 

If he truly trusts you; opens up his heart to you; and does not feel the need to go through your belongings, your phone or always speculate on what you are doing or not doing; it is an indicator that you hit the marriage jackpot.

If your husband comes to you when he’s upset, overwhelmed or frustrated and talks to you about deep, sensitive and private issues, it is another indicator that you are married to the right person.

 


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