Nobody wants to find that they are an option in their romantic relationships.
Here are 6 signs that someone does not consider you a priority:
1. You only get valuable time with each other as a result of last minute.
You are never a beneficiary of a long-planned appointment or excursion. Whenever you are together, whether with an appointment or just casual, it’s always something you organize at the last moment. There is probably a long list of people who refused an invitation to go out before being considered an option.
2. You are never the person they want to take to big events and gatherings.
If you truly ranked high on a person’s priority list, you are invited to important events and parties. However, if you do not want to take them to major events such as parties, weddings or anniversaries in public, you should consider the possibility that you are a minor business and not the real deal.
3. They appear when they need something.
Your text messages and phone calls always left unanswered. They contact you only if they need your help. They want something from you and that’s the only reason they pay attention to you. Be wary of these guys because they will not support you in a crisis.
4. They have little to no knowledge about the details of your life.
They do not really care to remember what you share with them. You must always repeat the things you have already said.
If a person really cared about you, they would consider every word you would say. Even the simplest details of your life would be important information for them, and they ould always try to remember it.
5. You are the only one who is fighting for the relationship.
Let me guess: you make all the plans. You put in all the effort. You feel that if you stop trying, everything will collapse. It means that there is an imbalance between the two of you and that you’re the only one who is acting like the relationship is worth saving.
6. You are unhappy most of the time.
Everything they do makes you unhappy and even though it is pretty clear, they don’t really seem to care enough to do something about it. Something is causing your unhappiness in this relationship. Most likely, there is something wrong in the relationship, and you need to figure out what to do next. Put yourself first and stop trying to save a relationship that does not really exist.