Love transcends genders, but there are subtle differences between how men and women display their affection to each other. Public display of affection might come easier to some than others, but usually, when a man does this he is serious about the person he is with.
It takes a lot of vulnerability for a man to show what he truly feels, without hiding his emotions due to any societal conventions.
Coming to what all man does for real love, here are the 7 discernible actions which show when he is absolutely in love with his significant other:
1. He will listen to you
Men behave like children to the people they love. When they are excited about something or someone they love, they give it their full concentration. If they love you, everything you say will matter to them.
However, listening does not necessarily mean understanding. A man who truly loves you will actually listen and understand your words and thoughts. You will see it affecting their daily activities and gestures.
2. He will fight with you
Fight here doesn’t mean the one where you get in the ring and beat one another to a pulp. Ok, bad joke. Occasional arguments in a relationship are necessary and they are inevitable. It’s during those times your love is put to test. If he truly loves you will put the effort and time to fight with you, discuss and make things better.
He will try to find the middle ground where you both can be happy. It’s during fights that you can find out what was going wrong and then further takes steps to make things better.
3. He will make sacrifices for your happiness
This could be one of the biggest signs that show that a man truly puts you before everything else. This shows their love and respect for your emotions.
If he agrees to modify his plans in order to do something you prefer rather than something he prefers, he is a keeper. By doing so, he is showing his willingness to put you and your needs before his.
4. He will fight for your love
Nothing in this world can stop a man who loves you. If you stay by his side, he will fight the whole world. He will take all the punches that come and would travel miles of desert, and he would suffer anything for you. He loves you and is afraid of losing you, he will face anything to keep you.
A loving man feels lucky to have you in his life and makes it known that losing you is the last thing he would ever want. He will be there by your side and nothing can move him.
5. He will be genuinely proud of your achievements
When in love, your man will view your achievements as his own achievements. The pride he feels about you will be somewhat similar to what a mother feels towards her child. There is no competition in love and thus he will never feel threatened by you.
6. He will find you beautiful even on your worst days
No matter if you have a bad hair day or breakouts, your man won’t care for looks if he indeed loves you. He will love you for the person that you are and not your looks. Superficiality will never be the base of his love. To him, you will look beautiful no matter what.
7. He will care about your family and friends as much as you do
A man who really loves you knows the value of your family and friends in your life. He understands the importance of people you love. He will make himself comfortable around your family and will try to keep your family happy because their happiness is associated with yours. He will pay heed to the detailed stories you tell about your friends and family. He will take care of them and treat them as his own friends and family.
8. He won’t be afraid to show his vulnerability in front of you
Men usually don’t like to show their vulnerability, but he will be different around you. He won’t be afraid to show you his vulnerable side and share his fears.
If not all, the man who loves you will show most of these characteristics. You are precious to him and he won’t shy away from showing that.